Book Name:Akhlaq-e-Mustafa Ki Jhalkiyan
1. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم always advised people to fear Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
2. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم always asked after the blessed companions رَضِىَ الـلّٰـهُ تَعَالٰی عَـنْهُم.
3. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم always praised people’s positive talks & ideas and condemned anything that was evil and forbade people from acting upon it.
4. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم dealt with every matter moderately.
5. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم was never neglectful of reform of people.
6. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would always do the Zikr of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
7. When he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم went somewhere, he would sit wherever he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم found place and also advised others to do the same.
8. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would fulfil the rights of the people who sat beside him.
9. Whoever was privileged to attend the blessed company of the Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم felt that the Holy Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم loved him the most.
10. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would not end the conversation with any one until that person left himself.
11. Whenever he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم shook hands with someone, he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم did not withdraw his blessed hands first.
12. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would always help the needy.
13. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم treated every one generously and politely.
14. His blessed gathering was the gathering of knowledge, tolerance, modesty, patience and trust.
15. His blessed gathering was very peaceful and nobody was disgraced.
16. If anyone made a mistake in the blessed gathering, it would not be made public. (Shumaail-ut-Tirmizi, pp. 192-193, summarized)
17. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would pay complete attention while talking to someone. (Shu’ab-ul-Iman, Hadees 1430)