Book Name:Waham Aur Bad Shuguni
حُسن و جمالِ مصطفیٰ مرحبا صد مرحبا
اَوج و کمالِ مصطفیٰ مرحبا صد مرحبا
صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
سُـبْحٰـنَ الـلّٰــه عَزَّوَجَلَّ! Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ has bestowed such a great and nice beauty upon His Beloved صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم that if someone would see him once he used to be captivated by seeing him. Remember! There is no one equal to him in his character as well his blessed appearance. There are people with whom if we have our relation up to greetings, we find them very pious and good-mannered, but when we have business activities with them or develop relationship with them, we know about their real attitudes and qualities, we realize how pious and good-mannered they are. However, the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم was not like them. He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم had perfect manners with all whether the younger or the elder, man or woman, the old or the young, a master or a servant. In short, he صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would treat all of them well. The good treatment of the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم was such that people would praise him after getting impressed. Being impressed by his good manners, the strangers would develop the feeling of friendliness. Those who were not close to the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would also called him Sadiq and Ameen; the non-Muslims who would have business activities with the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم would embrace Islam after being impressed with his good manners. If those, who would trade with him, were Muslims, they would strengthen their faith. They would get ready even to sacrifice their lives for the sake of the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم.
But if we ponder over our everyday matters, we reveal that our family members, neighbours and relatives do not trust us. They feel hesitant about trading with us, about other types of work and matters. Why is it so? It is because we have bad habits like bad manners, arrogance and we quarrel over trivial matters. Therefore whenever we have any kind of dealing with someone else, we should try to treat her well because good manner is a very beautiful and nice attribute due to which even a stranger becomes a friend. By virtue of