(Ta’aruf-e-Ameer-e-Ahl-e-Sunnat, pp. 40)

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب           صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic sisters! We were listening to the ways in which we can adopt politeness. Remember! If we want to establish the Madani environment in our homes, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want to invite our parents towards good, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want our sisters and daughters to adopt veiling (purdah), we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want our sons to offer Salah, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want to stop our friends Islamic sisters from committing bad deeds, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want to invite our neighbour Islamic sisters to the weekly Sunnah-inspiring Ijtima’, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If we want to win the hearts of our subordinate Islamic sisters, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. If you want to make other Islamic sisters’ mindset to, fill in the 63 virtuous deeds booklet, attend Madrasa-tul-Madinah for Balighaat (Islamic sisters) and participate in other Madani activities, we must adopt politeness within ourselves. O Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! For the sake of the blessed smile of Your Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم, grant us politeness.

اٰمِيۡن بِجَاهِ النَّبِيِّ الۡاَمِيۡن صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيۡهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم

صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب           صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

Dear Islamic sisters! Keep this in your mind! Those who are harsh, people avoid coming close or talking to them. These types of people are not looked at with respectful eyes in society. People say all sorts of things about them behind their backs. For example, ‘Keep away from that person, she is very harsh!’ ‘She disgraces everyone in front of others over little things!’ ‘Her face is always full of anger!’ ‘Her family members are always upset with her due to her fear!’ etc. Just ponder! Do people talk like this about us? Are we imposing