Book Name:Nachaqiyon Kay Asbab Aur ilaj
Dear Islamic sisters! Unnecessary anger is also such a dangerous epidemic that creates major mischiefs and opens doors to many conflicts. Anger is the name of those emotions of the Nafs that incite a person to take revenge from the other person or to distance her away. (Mirat-ul-Manajeeh, vol. 6, pp. 655)
Highlighting evils created by unnecessary anger
Remember! Unnecessary anger leads to various evils that are destructive for the Hereafter. For example:
*Anger leads to jealousy.
*Anger leads to backbiting.
*Anger entices a person to tale-tell.
*Anger revives the hidden animosity in the heart.
*Anger severs relationships.
*Anger leads a person towards lying.
*Due to anger, a person tarnishes the dignity of others.
*Anger gives a person the disgraceful mind-set of considering Muslims having lower status to be inferior then oneself.
*Anger leads both parties to abuse each other.
*Anger makes a person arrogant.
*Anger leads a person into an unnecessary quarrel.
*Anger makes a person mock others.
*Anger provokes a person to sever other people’s ties.
*Anger does not let a person regard anyone.
*At times, anger destroys a happy family, i.e. even divorce takes place between husband and wife.
*An angry person becomes happy and pleased upon the loss of his enemy.