Book Name:Aulad Ki Tarbiat Or Walidain Ki Zimmedariyan
dweller! Did you like the advice of a villager? I asked: By Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! I liked. Then she said: Son! Refrain from cheating because cheating is the worst of whatever things you do to people. Adopt generosity, courtesy, modesty and gain knowledge now I hand you over to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ. Peace be upon you; may Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on you! Remember! In Islam, committing [the sin of] backbiting is more grievous sin than committing [the sin of] fornication 30 times. (Aansu’on ka Derya, pp. 249)
صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
Tajdar-e-Madani In’amaat and upbringing of children
The wife of Haji Abu Junayd Zam Zam Raza Attari رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه [the preacher of Dawat-e-Islami and member of central Majlis-e-Shura of Dawat-e-Islami] has stated: The deceased used to love his children very much. When his daughters would come, he despite being busy would come home to meet them. When he would become a little strict while rectifying someone’s mistake at home, he would explain the reason as well that he was making him/her understand for their benefits and for the salvation in the Hereafter. While eating meals he would get children to make Du’a and would eat meals as per Sunnah. He would take his sons to Masjid for Salah as far as possible. When he would go to travel with Madani Qafilahs, he would urge his family members to offer Salah and would continue to follow up through SMS whether or not they offered Salah. Even when he was ill he said to his elder son: As I recover, اِنْ شَــآءَالـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ we both will travel with a Madani Qafilah. Refusing to buy a mobile phone for his son he رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه made up his son’s mind by saying that Ameer-e-Ahl-e-Sunnat, the founder of Dawat-e-Islami, has forbidden to buy a mobile phone for children, therefore I will not buy a mobile phone for you. (Mahboob-e-‘Attar ki 122 Hikayaat, pp. 13)
مِری آنیوالی نسلیں ترے عشق ہی میں مچلیں
انہیں نیک تو بنانا مدنی مدینے والے