Book Name:Aulad Ki Tarbiat Or Walidain Ki Zimmedariyan
deeds Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ likes, and prevent them from the deeds Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ dislikes.’ (Tafseer Durr-e-Mansur, vol. 8, pp. 225)
1. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: Teach your children three habits: (1) Love for the Nabi (صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم) (2) love for Ahl-e-Bayt (his blessed family). (3) Education of the Holy Quran. (Al-Jami’-us-Sagheer lis-Suyuti, pp. 25, Hadees 311)
2. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: It is the right of a child upon his father to give him a good name and teach good manners.
(Shu’ab-ul-Iman, vol. 6, pp. 400, Hadees 8658)
3. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has stated: No father has given his child a gift that is better than good manners.
(Sunan-ut-Tirmizi, pp. 383, vol. 3, Hadees 1959)
Regarding this blessed Hadees a great thinker of the Ummah, Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan Na’eemi رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has said: Good manners mean to make a child pious and abstinent. What else can be a better gift for children than this! These things are helpful in this world and the Hereafter both. Parents should not only make their children rich before departing this life, but they should also make them pious that will also help them in their graves as the reward for good deeds of living children are given to their deceased parents in the graves. (Mirat-ul-Manajih, vol. 6, pp. 565)
صَلُّوۡا عَلَى الۡحَبِيۡب صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد
Dear Islamic brothers! The need of Islamic education and Madani Tarbiyyat [upbringing] we feel today perhaps has not been felt before because nowadays evil acts and the sinful instruments are in abundance everywhere and the tendency to provide children with only worldly education is rapidly increasing. On the other hand, Islamic education for children was given more importance in the past. Perhaps it was due to which not only parents but also their children were pious, abstinent and obedient, but now, unfortunately,