Aulad Ki Tarbiat Or Walidain Ki Zimmedariyan

Book Name:Aulad Ki Tarbiat Or Walidain Ki Zimmedariyan

preference is being given to worldly education. Heavy fees are paid and all luxuries and facilities are provided to English medium schools so that children’s worldly future can become bright, they can get good jobs and have lots of bank balance. For achieving this purpose, parents even send their children abroad for studies. In this way, for getting worldly education a child becomes a devoted worldly man, a good businessman and a fashionable person, but not a righteous and practising Muslim.

Advising Muslims to give good upbringing to their children Mufti Ahmad Yar Khan رَحْمَةُ اللهِ تَعَالٰی عَلَيْه has said: It is a common practice amongst Muslims that they do not take care of the manners of their children in their childhood. Poor people allow their children to play with vagrant boys and thus they destroy their precious time of getting education, in bad company and playing sports and games. These children after growing up either beg or do insulting jobs or spend their life in jails after becoming thieves, robbers and bullies. The rich make their children desirous from the very beginning. They teach them how to grow English hair style and spend money carelessly. They get them suited and booted every time, then take them to cinemas and the dance programs. When these children become a little mature they are not taught even a Kalimah (statement of faith); they are admitted into a school or a college. They are taught how to become fashionable and spend lots of money. Bad company destroys their health and religion both. Now if the boy leaves his college and gets a good job, he becomes very rude. Neither does he respect his mother, nor recognizes his father, nor does he have any idea of the rights of the wife, nor is he aware of the upbringing of children. The criteria of success they have in their mind is that people should consider them (highly qualified in) English. Is it a success to forget or destroy your own identity for the sake of other nation? If they do not get any suitable place, they face great problems because they learn only how to spend in the college, not to earn, nor to spend for others. They learn how to get work done by servants, but not by themselves. Now for spending college-like life they become noble bullies or by making fake notes, spend their life in jail or they become robbers and wicked people. The children who are not provided with good company in their childhood trouble their parents a lot when they grow up. We have seen the parents of great fashionable sons complaining, ‘Please Mufti Sahib, give